Do you think people will understand each other if they won't talk? Do you think there's going to be peace if neither of the sides know what they are thinking? Do you think something will happen if they won't know each and everyone's sentiments?
My answer is absolutely a big NO.
I believe that having a good communication leads to a healthy relationship. A person should know his/her partner's thoughts for them to understand each other. People don't live through giving hints and just showing actions. Life is never like charades. Everyone should speak their selves out. It's for the good of every single one, not only for couples but also for friends. :)
For example, if one writes something through a blog maybe, and the reader gets it differently from what the author really meant, a misunderstanding builds up and it may lead to some serious things. One can hurt another person if they only give hints to each other. How will they know whenever one likes this or not? The reader would never know what are the emotions of the author while he/she's writing it. A healthy relationship is obviously not possible to achieve if people are not open to each other.
It's easy to talk anyway. It's the first thing our parents want us to learn when we were young. They always want to hear something from us because that's a good sign of connection, a bond we call. It only needs some folds in the face, some muscle movements, little amount of saliva and of course thoughts to say. It's as easy as 1-2-3 and A-B-C.
As much as possible, talk to each other. It's a good way of avoiding confusions and misunderstandings. There's no harm in talking. Plus, it's easy and fun. :)
Sunday, 25 January 2009
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